NO drugs, doesn't drink or smoke

 

funny, good sense of humor

 

intelligent, but not to the point of making ME feel stupid

 

confident, but not overly so

 

has an eclectic taste in music but prefers rock of all types (rock, classic rock, metal, heavy metal, goth, intustrial, nu-metal, alturnative, etc.). No country though, ick.

 

could enjoy going to goth night

 

would enjoy attending Rocky and not get pissy about me being in it (in my undies)

 

not overly jealous about things

 

would not dictate what I can and cannot wear

 

gets along with my family

 

loves going to concerts

 

doesn't get pissy when I DON'T want him around (when I need alone time or need to be with my friends)

 

likes cats

 

doesn't/won't treat me like a trophy

 

is trustworthy

 

good personality

 

honest and open

 

talkative but not too talkative (i.e. someone who likes to hear them selves talk)

 

interested in more than just my body

 

is o.k. with my differentness

 

isn't going to try to change me

 

gets along with my "second" family (the most important one) [my second family is my friends, without them I am nothing]

 

is ok with just sitting around watching tv, or going out and being social (anti-social people and me don't mix well)

 

not violent (guys who wants to physically fight with someone for anything upsets me. It's a lot more respectable to walk away from a fight then to start one. And you never know when one day they could turn on you.)

 

can understand my need for space/freedom and would not try to tie me down

 

wouldn't lie to me (I don't trust guys to start with, so lying to me is never a good idea, I will eventually find out)

 

isn't afraid to share their thoughts and feeling (I'm a bit closed off at times, but if the other person is willing to share with me, I'll be willing to share back to the best of my abilities)

 

is going to do something with their life (my dad would like me to be with someone that has direction. Not someone who's going to drag me into the hole with them.)

 

would support me no matter what

 

stand up for me when I'm being talked about behind my back

 

**More to come.... I just have to think some more**